Me and my gf have been doing long distance for 4 months. We started dating in summer when we were together and decided to do long distance through school, it’s almost winter break and we’re about to see each other for the first time in 4 months however i feel like i may be losing my feelings.
I’ve been slammed with finals for the past two weeks and during that time we didn’t have any free time to do long calls or anything. This was the longest we’ve spent without really talking and reflecting on it, i think i may be falling out of love.
I’m freaking out, i used to want to be with this person forever and now with each day i feel like i’m forgetting what i love about them. The worst part is we’re gonna see each other in a week and spend three weeks together.
I really don’t know if i’m actually falling out of love or I’ve been so busy and stressed that i need to rekindle that love with them. but the fact that i’m making this post at all has to mean something right??
I feel so fucking guilty, it’s gotten to a point that they’ve asked me if things are ok and i had to lie and pretend. I genuinely care for them and have no intention of breaking their heart, I know that they’ve been really looking forward to us being together again and so was i. Now i’m just scared that if i really did fall out of love, things are going to end in the messiest way ever with the worst timing ever.
Should i let them know what i’m thinking before we see each other again?
tl;dr i think im falling out of love with my long distance gf that im going to see for the first time in 4 months next week. I’m freaking out, idk what to do.
2 comments
You should think about this. Deeply whether you are really out of love or is this just due to stress. Also you could spend time with them and that might rekindle the love you have for them and renew the feelings.
Please don’t be hasty.
Wait to see how you feel when you see her. Stress and not being around each other can mess with your perception after a while I think.