I caught a girl staring at me while I was working at a big event in the city , her and her mum are big fans of the band I was there backstage with. The daughter kept staring so I later found out who she was and added her online, I asked for her number and she said she would like to “TALK” then said she has a boyfriend but asked me very general / casual questions an seemed to want to get to know me.

I think because of my relationship with the band, perhaps she didn’t want to refuse the opportunity to talk with me as a friend?? I told her I want to get to know her but I am going to give her space since she has a boyfriend and that she should text me when she wants to talk.

Lets say theoretically one day I’m still single and she messages me saying they’ve broken up and I don’t hear from her until then, is this still a major red flag?

We haven’t really flirted but she knows my intentions were to ask her on a date until she advised me she was taken. We only texted back and forth one or two times once I found out.

1 comment
  1. It’s definitely due to the band, she wants to get to know you in the hopes that you invite her backstage to see the band irl.

    No need to thank me bro, maybe u can hook me up with some backstage tickets doe

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