Being together for two years. Our sex life has improved a lot. We start not being able to penetrate to her to her even giving bj.
Things improved and I like it. But there are two things that still remains.
Her libido is low, we will dl it once per week if lucky and she is not looking forward it. This make me feel a bit undesired. Lately our sex sessions improved but she has stopped squirting. I know it means nothing but I feel sex is becoming a chore.
The other and principal issue is that she nevers focus on me. She has it harder to reach orgasm so I always focus on her first. After the first orgasm I focus on both. But the thing is I can be one hour giving her pleasure and she will not return. Bj will be of one minute(she dislikes them so I not insist here), but she does not masturbate me or focus on me and it is a bit…unfair.
The thing is I do not really want to ask her to focus more on me, I want her to desire me and do it by her own iniative.
Any tips?
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If you want a fulfilling sex life, you need to learn to ask for what you want. Your partners aren’t mind readers and they don’t intuitively know what you like or what feels good for you. After two years together, you and your girlfriend have pretty established patterns when it comes to sex and she might not have any idea that it’s not working for you. Communicate with her, ask for her to touch you in certain ways. If she refuses to take feedback and isn’t interested in making improvements (which I doubt, since you indicated that things have already improved for you), then you can decide whether the relationship with her is worth the stale sex life.
You really need to discuss your sex dynamics with her and tell her how you feel