okay, so does ANYONE relate to this?
There’s something so attractive about a guy that I’m seeing and trust telling me he wants to skip the rubber. Like i get that for them its about the rubber taking away some of the sensations etc but why is it such a turn-on? i mean I’m the type of paranoid that always uses a condom on top of already having an IUD because I like having my time and money all to myself right. Maybe its the feeling of knowing they’d ‘risk it all’, maybe its a form of ‘patriarchal validation’?? idk
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Can’t speak for all guys, but I think it’s literally just the feelings and sensations when they go in naked as it were
Sex without a condom feels better and more intimate to me (F) so I imagine some men feel the same. If both partners are STI tested, monogamous, and using alternate forms of birth control, then comfort not using condoms is a personal choice.
Does this feeling change depending on your cycle? Most women report that the craving for “primal sex” peaks during ovulation.
My wife and I can’t stand the feeling of condoms.
Also, my wife loves the feeling of my cum shooting inside her so much that it usually makes her cum in response.
It’s not increasing some sensation. No condom on activates all sensation, heat and wetness feels so much better. I’ve been having condomless sex with my wife for 15 years both of us can never go back.
Having no barrier between us and when I climax and coat her insides with my semen is the ultimate form of bonding.
It feels better and is more psychologically satisfying to ejaculate inside of one’s partner.
Some people who receive penetrative sex enjoy the feeling and/or thought of their partner cumming inside of them.
Generally sexual desires are not as cerebral as any kind of patriarchal conspiracy theory, the simplest explanation is often the correct one.
I don’t find it attractive if a guy asks to not use one. Sure it might be better without, but i’m still gonna use them and i become annoyed and think they’re immature when asking not to use it. For context, i’m 19 so that probably has an impact on my viewpoint.
I always used a condom when first having sex, so for years, that’s all I knew and loved it. Then I got married and we don’t use condoms. Now we can’t go back to using them. Feels way better for both of us without. And I would say that it is a little sexier for me when we can go straight from foreplay into sex.