I(19M) met this girl(20F) during my second semester in college have turned into one the most important people to come into my life. I haven’t felt this close and comfortable with anyone outside or inside my family, finally i have found a person with whom can i be actually me. I do not need to put up a face or put up a filter…I just feel really warm and this deep feeling of relief while I am with her.
And on many many occasions she too has expressed her attachment towards me, and I genuinely realize that either way. To be honest we might have romantic feelings for each other, we have talked about this and reached to the conclusion we aren’t ready for it right now.
Next week I’ll be starting my 4th Semester, by now I have become too attached to her…but she constantly makes me realize she is temporary and we will leave each other some or other day. She does this with innocence not with intention to hurt me. I may or may not have attachment issues do to which I just cannot fathom the thought of losing her…but I think it would be better to just accept the fact we might not be with each other like I want to
So just to soften the blow when the time comes I want to be prepared. Your help is welcomed.
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It’s tough I had my ex leave me for same issue, you’ll feel a lot of pain and you can help it… she will go on find someone else and fall in love with them and forget about you, you just gotta accept that…