What are your go-to security measures for a blind date?

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1. I don’t disclose where I live, that’s my child’s safe space, to anyone I date at all. I always tell someone where I’ll be and when to expect a call that the date has ended.

2. Public place, send at least 2 people your location, text them what you’re wearing, tell them when you’re heading home/almost home/home so they know you’re safe

3. Old married person here. I always wonder why people don’t take a picture of the person, and even their ID and send it to someone. Both people should do that.

4. Never invite a first date to your home – a gentleman will only ever ask which suburb you live in, and never the street. Don’t share a taxi home, etc.

   Do tell a person where you are going, and do text/call the rperson when you are on your way home.

   First dates are obvious. Third dates can be challenging- by that time you are likely to be into them, but its still not a good idea to go for a romantic picnic in the remote woods! Hold off until you’ve got absolute confirmation of their address or identity – eg you’ve been to their pad and you notice the gas bill on the coffee table addressed to them.

   Where I live there is a campaign underway – if you go to the bar/server and state a specific phrase, they will keep an eye on your table or see you safely into a taxi. Check out you local area for a codeword.

   But don’t become paranoid – enjoy their company as things unfold.