Hello,
I am a M25 and I never had a girlfriend before, nor sex. I am considering myself a failure in relationship. This is due to me having uncontrollable masturbation addiction to fill in the needs of a human touch.
I have love interests before, but they all failed. This has slowly taken an effect on my self-worth and how unworthy I am of a love interest to the other sex.
I don’t know how to talk to girls, nor how to build my self-confidence to talk about myself.
I grew up in a family where modesty and not talking about yourself too much is appreciated and talking too much about yourself seems obnoxious.
I am looking for a change, and any advice is appreciated. I am writing this in tears, feeling down about myself.
Thank you.
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Hey! As someone that used to have severe anxiety and depression, my first and most important recommendation is to try therapy first. It really helps you clear up alot of trauma that you didn’t know was there, and become more confident with yourself and at peace with who you are. Additionally, if you feel you have an addiction, some therapists can help with that if that is something you would like to change.