what do you think should go onto a profile? im thinking of just maybe listing “open to kinks”?
when should it be talked about? before anything gets to sex or after maybe a vanilla experience? i wouldn’t want to hook up with someone, maybe start to feel committed and then find out we want or need different things in the bedroom.
ive tried a lot of things that were fun but i have some deal brakers that if i dont have them i know i wont feel fulfilled.
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I am a big proponent of getting information out there as quickly as possible to avoid wasting everybody’s time.
It depends on if you’re into more extreme kinks and what your expectations are. A lot of people just like letting their sexual relationship grow organically, so they share their preferences slowly as it develops. And other people are looking for something specific and don’t want to waste time getting there slowly. I’m more in the first camp, and the people in my circles are too. But I’ve heard of other circles where it’s much more purposeful and direct.
If it’s specifically for a FWB post, then yes. Otherwise, you won’t really connect with someone over your shared interest in kinks
what are your kinks? just saying open to kinks could mean allot of things. I know some people that would take that in a very wide range.
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I wouldn’t put sexual kinks on a profile. I’d say, discuss this after the first time you have sex.