A bit of an odd one here.
I can’t locate her G-Spot, but neither can’t she… I know what it is, where it should be, where it was with other women, but with my current girl… It seems to be nowhere.
So guys&gals. What’s up with this missing in action G-Spot? Any way we can summon it back, or is she simply unlucky?
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Not all women have it or find pleasure in it being stimulated if they do.
Bodies are weird.
Do you mean “my current girl cant orgasm from g spot stimulation like the other women I’ve been with”?
Or do you mean literally you don’t feel the bumpy ridge on the top side of the vaginal opening where her g spot should be?
Everybody’s got nipples. Not everybody likes em played with. Maybe that area just doesn’t respond like it does it others. No big deal. Find the places she does like touched and go to town!
I dont have one either. I have a history of sexual trauma and i think that it just kind of cancelled out that stuff. I dont cum normally either, i have to do things really specifically. Annoying but, i enjoy myself the way i am, and i dont think theres anything wrong with it! Theres lots of ways to feel good.
“… I’m constantly being asked questions by women who are desperately seeking their own G-spots.
“… Though scientists haven’t been able to locate the G-spot, it is likely that some women are able to stimulate this inner portion of the clitoris from within their vagina. I’ve spoken to many gynecologists, and none have provided any hard evidence for the existence of a separate G-spot, but since some women report this extra sensitivity within their vagina, that it be this extended clitoris that is being stimulated makes sense.
“My problem with the G-spot lies in the fact that it doesn’t seem to be a universal phenomenon, yet thousands (and for all I know, millions) of women are now looking for their G-spots.
“Actually, because of where the G-spot is said to be located, on the interior wall of the vagina, a woman would have a very hard time finding it by herself. Instead, she has to send her partner on a Lewis and Clark expedition up her vagina. When their partners don’t find this pot of gold, some women blame them for being inadequate explorers, the two of them end up fighting about it, and their entire sex life goes down the tubes.
“I’m not a big believer in lotteries, but every once in a while, when the jackpot gets really big, I go out and spend a couple of bucks on a ticket. The odds are long, but so what, how much have I wasted? That’s my philosophy about the G-spot. If a couple wants to look for the woman’s G-spot, go for it — as long as they don’t invest too much in this search. If they find a place in her vagina that gives her a lot of pleasure, great. If they don’t, they should just forget about it.”
(Ruth K. Westheimer & Pierre A. Lehu “Sex for Dummies”, 4th edition, 2019)
So it may just not work for her or it could be that she has other spots that trigger the feeling for her. My wife has several different areas that make her cum, including on the sides and on the underside. Move around a bit and you may hit something.
Believe it or not, the G spot was only ‘discovered’ in the 80s. Nobody had heard of it before. Even now, many scientists claim there’s no such organ. It’s just the back of the clitoris. Myself, I’ve never felt a thing up there and never had a partner who looked for it. I would have wondered what they were digging for.
She may be one of the many women who aren’t sensitive in that area. Just go to the clitoris. We are all different.