Do you think there is a particular trigger or a way to get into a specific kink? Anyone have any stories of how there’s turned from through into erotic fantasy and any pitfalls or benefits?

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  2. I’m a survivor of SA and childhood abuse but have grown to love BDSM. This is a well studied correlation that can be a healing experience for many survivors. I started having “dark” fantasies very young and kept them a secret until my early twenties when I found a Dom partner who showed me the ropes. It changed my relationship with myself in an extremely positive way; not only was it incredibly fun but for the first time, I wasn’t ashamed of my desires and sexuality. Since then I’ve been able to have kink scenes with FWB and incorporate kink into long term relationships; my psycho-sexual health is much more balanced than it was prekink.

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