I’ve only ever felt like THIS once before with my previous partner. However I have asked people out and gone on dates. So, this person is one of my coworkers. I don’t know if I’m gonna pursue anything ’cause I’m scared of rejection again. However, there are many reasons why and the way I feel is quite similar to how I initially felt towards my first partner. It’s rare that I have butterflies around people.
Anyhow, she’s cute and has a nice smile, very personable and she gets along well with everyone. Also, since I fall for odd and particular things, we were talking about animals (a strong interest of mine) and she said in a similarly excited tone “My favourite animals are lions! they’re really cool” and asked me the favourite animal question before I asked her. She also likes anime which is cool and has two sick tattoos. One of which is Part 4 Josuke. (My parents met at this exact age-range lmao so I think it’s fine) but I plan to wait and figure out my feelings first. What do people think?
TL;DR: I’m 18M and my potential crush is 23F, is that okay? And what should I do?
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Very low chance she wants to date someone 5 years younger at 23, it’s the truth
***NEVER*** shit where you sleep.
Additionally, the likelihood of a 23 year old being interested in an 18 year old is damned close to zero.
Lastly, the interactions you have (animals, anime, tatts, etc.) is called “small talk” and it’s just part of being “social” and “friendly”.
There is *nothing* more for you to read into it.