TW: eating disorder, bulimia
I’m bulimic, I provoke puking, and I’m “good” at it (by that I mean I’m really quick). The more I do it, the quicker it is. I’m afraid I will become so sensitive in my throat, that anything – especially a dick – will trigger gag reflex and I will puke over my partner. So my question to fellow blowjob givers who also have this ED problem – can you do deepthroat, or it’s just impossible because of quick gagging?
Please, do not “advice” by telling me to heal first. I tried. I can’t. I’m not doing this because I want to or because it’s fun. It’s a disorder. I am getting help. But currently I still have a life outside of ED and I want to have sex.
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Quit worrying about deepthroat when you have other stuff you need to address.
But the answer? Don’t deepthroat. You take the penis into the mouth about 2”, and then use your hand to jerk the rest of it.
Yes desensitisation of your gag reflex will reduce it over time. A friend had bulimia and she could deep throat without ever triggering a gag reflex. However, that same friend has significant muscle wastage in her legs and tights and complains she has very little muscle mass in her bum. Unsure if that is even related but there is of course no way in any environment that sucking dick is worth the impact of an eating disorder
You need to worry about more than puking on your partner. How about esophageal damage from the acid that you’re upchucking regularly, that can cause some serious problems down the road? Get help for this disorder, before you end up with a problem that threatens your life.
Yeah it will, but for me it was the opposite of what you are worried about. Back when I was doing that was when I started being able to deep throat. I stopped a long time ago but my gag reflex never got more sensitive so I cant still do it. I also can make myself throw up very easily still, but I don’t throw up easily if I’m not trying to.
Go slow only taking slightly more as you feel more comfortable. Stop right before the gag. Tap his leg. Maybe on an empty stomach and gag away.