How many of you get looked down upon or get called gay/woman by other guys just cause you like to take care of your face and looks?

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1. As guys, piss taking is naturally part of how we communicate but If you’re over the age of about 12 and your mates are still using gay as an insult, get some new mates with some better banter.

2. Not anymore because I cut those people out of my life.

3. I have been called gay by other men for a lot of weird things. Including but not limited to:

   – Changing my underwear every day

   – Wearing perfume

   – Having a clean room

   – Liking tall women

   – Turning down the sexual advances of a 16 year old when I was 20

   – Not liking whiskey

   – Going down on women

   – Only wanting one daughter and not wanting a son

   – And baking

   You might notice none of these relate to *liking men,* which I do as you might notice by my tag, but god damn some men are weird as fuck.

4. Honestly it’s been the opposite for me. Most of my social circle are preeners and I’m the scruffy bugger

5. nobody says that to my face… helps that i am pretty bulky tho #6foot1and230pounds

6. I don’t think I’ve ever been called gay (to my face at least) and absolutely not since becoming an adult. I’d simply not hang out with that kind of person

   Edit: Wait no! I remember one time when I first moved to my city at 22 and started to try and make friends one guy tried making a joke that they put all the gay people in my department (we worked for the same company) and I didn’t even know how to respond lol. He tried playing it off saying “It’s a joke haha” but I just shook my head and told him I understood it was a joke. I never hung out with that dude after that.

7. Not particularly clothes, but I tend to have a somewhat feminine taste in music, and live in the American south, so many family members question my masculinity unfortunately

8. lift weights too no one will bother you

9. What’s wrong with being gay or woman?

10. I used to, but my friends grew up and stopped calling everything “gay” after a while. Well.. most of them 😂

    I’ve always liked taking care of myself. I have a skincare routine, I whiten my teeth, manscape.. etc. Why not? I have no intentions of looking like a musky ass caveman 😂

11. Not all the time but often enough that it seems weird. I thought all straight men washed their ass tbh

12. Not me, but wait. I don’t do those things…

13. Never