23f and she 25f ,we been talking for bout 3 weeks now. She is the first girl that I have everything in common with from food,to goals, working, we even think the same. And for some reason we agrue and bicker so much we ended up being quiet or keeping our distance most of the time.
For some people would say that’s regular stuff but I’m used to attracting complete opposite and we learn everything bout each other. Whether it culture ,living style, work ethic ,families,etc. and I don’t know I can’t wrap my finger around why we don’t get along. Would you say this is something that happens often or is common? Similars detach while opposite attach. She not my type but bcuz of the similar interest I want her to be my type
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Learn to be open minded and see her argument from her perspective.
Learn to compromise.
Normal couples don’t argue all the time. Those kinds of relationships don’t last very long.
Your ‘type’ changes towards the person you’re in love with. It’s not set in stone. You thinking she’s not your type just means you have no feelings for her. Which might also be a part of the problem.
And I think you’re not as similar as you think you are. Else there wouldn’t be much to argue about.