Hey Guys, I (m18) have been talking to this girl (f17) for a while, I asked if she wanted to catch up a while back over text but she was busy which may have well been the case. She didn’t reach out to reorganise tho probably because I was too vague saying “catch up”.
I wanna make sure if I ask again I reduce chance of rejection. She seems into me but I dont know.
I heard this line off a YouTube vid
“Im going to… I’d invite you but … ” And think I could maybe use it eg.”
I’m going to the gym again tomorrow afternoon if invite you but I dont think you could keep up lmao”.
I would want to ask her out to ice cream probs tho or walk in the park.. how could I reframe this structure to fit in with this or what is a better way to ask her out.
(She is going through a bit of a tough time at the moment so I’m probably being selfish in wanting something sooner rather than later)
Thank you
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The gym line is better, playfully +casually suggesting sth and then dissuggesting it is a lot more fun for her than saying “hey let’s grab an ice cream in the park”. On the downside a gym date isn’t really a date unless u grab a drink with afterwards