So i’m going to make this as easily and blunt as possible without going much into detail. I’ve been with her for nearly two years and this behavior is constant and usually her natural behavior. She’s a “Idgaf about anyone” type girl however you won’t clearly see that when you look at her, she’s petite , super nice, Funny and beautiful; Her personality is beyond perfection atleast for me. There has been instances where i have told her that she makes me feel sometimes hurt, sad , angry, invalid, or upset. Eachtime i address any concern that’s apparent to me and I want to avoid or clarify , she usually get’s into a rowdy mood and gets angry to where-as i usually apologize for feeling the way I do. I don’t know how to approach this anymore, For example we were at the movies with a few friends and there S/O’s and everyone left in pairs meanwhile my GF just upright left me alone and walked to the car (She wasn’t in emotional distress or anything) . I later told her I felt kinda disrespected that she left me alone and a little shitty where she didn’t even wait for me or anything and after that she gave me attitude saying “I don’t wanna fucking wait for you to be done talking” then I told her again “I just feel a little disrespected is all” then proceeded to give me the silent treatment and wouldn’t talk to me, It made me feel invalidated in my own feelings. I then apologized and later everything was normal. However it’s small instances like this where I have the slightest itch i need to vent however it’s turned into a point where i’m always the one at fault for my own feelings (which is true sometimes) however in a relationship, isn’t comfort and a general consensus on things that make both partners feel comfortable normal in a relationship? I can never actually talk to her about any problems that is in correlation with how she treats me without guilt tripping me or getting angry without any thought or consideration of how i feel? How should I actually approach this and what should or could I say? Should i even speak? This person is someone i’d rather not lose and I don’t think it’s too much of a problem to cause a breakup however it sucks feeling like i’m the only one with feelings and even more so the only one caring about my S/O
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Why are you with her? You deserve to be treated like a human being.