So this keeps happening all the time. Girls are like “not ready” or on the second date “don’t show up” or just keeping ghosting me. Not sure what I’m doing wrong. I was seeing this girl we had a great first date and she asked me on a second. The day before the date she said she “wasn’t busy but would love to do Top Golf with another day.”
Today she text me “ Hey sorry I didn’t respond earlier…I have been super busy and I just don’t think right now is the best timing for me to date. There is a lot of changes going on at work after break so I just need some time to myself but I enjoyed meeting you and I hope you have a great Christmas”
Is she ghosting me or what?
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She’s doing the Opposite of ghosting you.
She’s letting you know she won’t be available.
A very courteous thing to do frfr
She’s saying she doesn’t have time to date rn (meaning you).
It didn’t work dude… Back to the drawing board.
>I just don’t think right now is the best timing for me to date.
So much more courteous than to just ghost and disappear.
Don’t be mean to her, or she may ghost the next guy for fear of retaliation. Pay it forward.
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24 im in the same boat man lol idk what to do
I’m not sure how we’re supposed to evaluate what you’re doing wrong on your first date.
she was being nice and then casually ducking out. it happens, move on, eventually you will meet someone very excited to clear her calendar for you.
She not interested in you. Work on yourself and improve your physical, financial, and mentality. Then you’ll see a change in results.
You’re not good enough, improve.
On your dates, you’re probably just not creating enough of an emotional connection, and making your dates feel enough through emotional fluidity. Women like you depending on how you make them feel.
Yeah she’s ghosting u, probably your texts are too boring + frequent and conveying too much interest
Take a break and start over with a fresh mind buddy. Not sure if this is an issue of yours but check it out: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qZ_FXjnz-0w