I’ll explain. When I had a FWB, he used stuff I wouldn’t normally think of using to tease me.
Tying me up using a ribbon he had from gift wrapping, sleep masks to block my vision while he kisses my body, sometimes using cold water. He would drink it to make his mouth and tongue cold then lick my nipples. He also used ice on my body.
I’m not very experienced at this and I wanna surprise my boyfriend by getting a little kinky. I’m not planning to use toys or anything like that so does anyone have any suggestions what I can use to tease my boyfriend a little?😊
Edit: Some of ya’ll responses are hilarious. Thanks for everyone for taking their time to comment their creativity!
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A pillow for under your hips makes a perfect angle for sex, me and my bf also have used eye masks, body oil is fun too just put a towel down.
A feather duster
Pringles cam
Ball peen hammer
Jumper cables
Ping pong paddle. It lives in our bedroom now.
Neck ties, and chilling cubes for drinks (as cold and less messy than ice). Just a couple ideas.
Ooh….. Well not sure about your boyfriend but most men I have heard from including my husband love the smell of you. So instead of a blindfold
You can use your underwear or maybe some shorts you wore all day to cover his face but he can also smell you on them while you are torturing him slowly.
Ice is a good one
Taking the sound away is also fun because you can drive him wild and he can’t see or hear you.
Something to run down the side of him so maybe a scarf that’s silky.
Put some things on you he can feel. Or maybe lick off but just your nipples and stomach or neck. If you like doing food play. Could eat something fruity then kiss him or even do the cold water have him take a drink but have peppermint from candy cane in your mouth and kiss him maybe it will feel the same as when you drink while eating peppermint.
Have fun!!
A big bird leaf!
Try a bunch of fruits kind grapes watermelons pick your fruit you would enjoy that especially where it goes
You could use pop rocks while doing a blow job, or bring whip cream in the mix
wasabi
An etch a sketch
When I was reading the title all I could think about was cucumber.
Cut a straw into a piece about 2 inches (5 cm) long and use it for oral stimulation on her body in sensitive areas.
Leaf blower
An electric toothbrush on your clit
I’m a Dom and I love spanking. If I’m at her place I love using household things so she’ll think of the experience every time she sees them. I’m
Bathrobe belts, neckties, underwear and scarves used for tying up arms, gagging and blindfolds. Hair brushes as spank paddles. Metal ruler that you can heat up or freeze for sensation play and/or spanking.
Sensory deprivation is a major kink of mine
When I’m on the providing end
Eye mask, light bondage, ear phones, and a few tools
Drop candles, lace or silk ribbon, paddle, a fork, ice etc
Just play but in random spots and always slowly and unpredictable it spices it up
Belts can be used as handcuffs or to tighten around neck, bowties, you can also use a charm necklace to tingle his body specially if the jewerly is cold.
Something I love to do as well is find a gloss or a lip balm with a flavor he likes to spice up the make out session. He will miss it and start associating that flavor with your lips
I like to use a bed. Really makes the whole thing a lot more comfy. Sometimes when it’s cold I’ll use blankets too!
Jokes aside though (I’m someone who does have a collection of kinky toys), be careful tying someone up regardless of the material at hand, tingling or numbness should be considered a mild emergency that takes the immediate focus, and you should really have a powerful pair of scissors on hand. You can easily do permanent nerve damage if you aren’t careful.
Similarly, breath play (anything that involves choking or otherwise interfering with the breath) can be extremely dangerous, or even deadly if you do it wrong.
So a few quick safety tips:
-Don’t tie with anything you cant/wont cut (EDIT; please don’t use neckties. They’re more difficult to cut than you expect, and more expensive than you want to replace)
-Never put pressure on the windpipe
-Only spank / hit fleshy bits. no joints. no bones. if it don’t jiggle, don’t hit it.
Have fun, be risk aware, find a local kink group you can learn from before getting too into it. People wind up in the ER all the time from kinky play they didn’t understand the risks of.
Clothespins
Regular spatula found in the kitchen is fun for spanking
Don’t use a regular candle as you will burn the fuck out of yourself. There are low temperature candles you can buy.
A drum stick 🫣
A cold fizzy drink in the womens mouth is meant to make a bj next level
My ex asked me to use a cucumber as a dildo.
Peeled and cold, I did as he asked. It was very interesting. The coolness was quite refreshing and then he ate the cucumber.
I kinda felt embarrassed masturbating in front of him with the vegetable but it was still kinda hot
Drink hot tea then give him a blowjob
A wizard hat
Hair brush handle up the ass. Did it to herself, much to my surprise.
Makeup Brushes
Benadryl for Somnophilia or CNC partners
Shampoo bottles for size queens
Covid face mask doubles as a blindfold in a pinch.
Belts can be restraints, ligature, or spanking tool.
Various kinds of Tape for Various kinda stuff. (Just be sure to check body safety concerns first)
Those little reflective sticks you see on driveways? Yeah, they’re like $4 and better than any cane you would use.
Rope, paddles, ginger root, whatever… Everything is a dildo if you’re brave enough.
One of those spider like head scratchers
I am wincing at some people using ice. We have a baby bottle warmer by the bed and use it so we have warmer lube during the winter months.
Hand towel for the cum leakage