Ok I am just curious to hear other people’s stories and experiences about whether they ever had 2-3 dates with someone and they chose someone else whether it be you didn’t have sex/performance anxiety for myself in this situation.. Don’t know if that’s why she left me or not? doubt it was that one time that changed it I could understand multiple times. But, other ways as well no chemistry whatever the reason.
Just seeing if they came back weeks, months, years etc. Sometimes its bad timing and I leave the door open because if I’m single I figure why not see where it can go, I’ll be dating in the meantime. Doesn’t feel like a back up option to me I for sure wouldn’t make it as easy for them to come back and won’t be waiting around. Anyone experience this before?
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Most people decide after 2-3 dates if they want to continue in the hopes of getting more serious of if they are just not feeling it. You probably didn’t do anything wrong specifically. She just wan’t that into you. They NEVER come back. Don’t waste time hoping.
If there was a lack of an emotional connection being built within your dates and conversations, chances are she probably didn’t feel enough to want to invest into pursuing things further. This can come from a lack of chemistry, showing intent, having too much of a ‘friend’ vibe.