Does anyone else experience something similar?
I‘m a healthy 34 yr old female but I‘ve never been able to feel much during sex. Regardless of the size of my partner or the position, as soon as it comes to penetrative sex i really can‘t feel much. Sometimes when the angle is right i get short spurts of pleasure but then it goes back to numbness. I can somewhat feel the movement and i can tell that he‘s inside, but nothing more than that.
I do get wet and excited and i‘m also able to orgasms with a vibrator. So the bodily function itself is there. I‘m also quite small so it shouldnt be an issue of my vagina being to big/loose and there not being enough friction.
It got to a point where penetrative sex is just not worth it anymore. Like i get very excited at the thought of having sex but then it‘s always just dull.
The only time it was remotely as good as you imagine it to be, was during really rough almost abusive sex. But that I couldnt handle mentally.
Stats: healthy, 34 yrs old, no hormonal birth controll, no meds
Any suggestions or similar experiences?
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This is normal and more common than you think!
The walls of the vagina are made of basically the same kind of tissue as inside your mouth. So, no fun nerve endings there. There are internal parts of the clitoris that can be stimulated indirectly by pressure on the walls of the vagina or rectum but this doesn’t work for everyone. Does fingering work or does that also feel like nothing? Fingers have the advantage over penises where they can bend.
I think you should just roll with it, this is how your body works and it’s within the range of normal.