So here someone skills maybe you can use in the future
1- If u want someone to so exactly what you say, Try to tease him/her try to tell them you don’t know what to do and him/her are good at this thing people often willing to help you after you tease them
2- when going to public like a restaurant, cafe, cinema
Try to move slowly and act like nothing happens
Just like the quote “You forget a thousands things everyday make sure this one of them”
3- In college try expend you’re networking of friendship
Honestly college is a good way to get a new motivation
4- if someone going to light up their cigarette try to help them to light it up couple times You’ll get more respect from them
5- Never make an eye contact with someone you’re scared or when you wanna avoid something
Just never.
Good luck