I complimented my boyfriend’s brother and it has completely changed our sex life.

I’ve (25F) been with my BF (27M) for two years. Our sex life has always been great but earlier this year it kind of slowed down which is OK. He had lots going on so I didn’t expect us to have tons of crazy sex.

For some context: I don’t have a kind, loving family but he does so I often spend time with them. He has a brother (28M) who is currently in a relationship with (26F).

About two months ago the four of us were hanging out and it was nice. I have somewhat of a RBF and laugh rarely, but his brother managed to get a laugh out of me a few times.

Later that night I told my BF that I enjoyed spending time with them and described his brother as “funny”. The way my BF looked at me you would’ve thought I said something heinous. He asked me to elaborate and I said that his brother is just a funny guy, that’s all. If this reminds you of that scene in Goodfellas you’re *exactly right*.

Then he simply replied “huh, OK” and gave me a weird look.

Later that night we had sex and it was **mind blowing**. He was a completely different person in a GOOD way. He was dominant, attentive, passionate, sexy. The foreplay already had me dripping wet and then he made me cum hard several times. Like he truly fucked the senses out of me. At that time I didn’t make the connection at all.

Our sex life has steadily been improving ever since. I’ve always been a bit hornier than him but it never caused any problems. However now he always wants to fuck which I’m enjoying so much. He’s also much more adventurous which creates for hot, memorable experiences.

This whole change not only drastically improved our sex life, it also made me fall in love with him more! I seriously can’t get enough of him now. I legit get butterflies when I think of him lol

Then it dawned on me; did he do all of this just bc I said his brother is funny?! It’s not like I gave an inappropriate compliment or even mentioned his looks. Would he really undergo this change just because of that harmless comment? That seems so insanely competitive that I cannot fathom he’d really do this. It’s not like I’m gonna run off with his brother or something!

I brought this up to him and he refused to explain himself. All he said was that it’s hard to make me laugh so when I complimented his brother he knew I truly meant it. Then he cryptically said “it had to be done” and kissed me (woo butterflies!)

Has anyone experienced something odd like this? I’m absolutely not complaining but I’m not sure if I find this situation amusing or strange.