She’s a great girl but _____

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1. She’s a great girl but she doesn’t want to address her mental health.

2. she had a social media addiction.

   Whatsapp, Instagram, Tiktok and all this crap. She couldnt put away her Phone for like 5 minutes. It drove me insane.

3. She was manically depressed and self harmed. Expected me to be a solution to her problems. Threatened suicide.

4. She totaled 4 cars in 6 years and thought it was normal and that she shouldn’t have to pay more attention when driving

5. She pressured me into everything, wouldn’t accept my boundaries, and threatened me with ultimatums.

   Looking back, I was more interested in the concept of a relationship than her. Glad I ducked out before marrying her or worse having kids. On the bright side, that relationship made me realize I don’t want children.

6. She has zero emotional intelligence

7. She cannot manage on her own, lack the ability to appreciate not being with you all the time.

8. Her family interferes in our relationship

9. She’s a liar and a cheat!! In the four years we were together there was a third party that hated our relationship…her ex girlfriend whom my wife said relationship ended 15 years ago…they were like sisters. Well now we are in the process of divorce. She divorced her husband and now wife for this woman! I was the wife and collateral damage in their fucked up relationship!!

10. She sees me just as an accessory to her life and not as an individual.

11. She had traumas and due to this couldnt do things like hugs,

    Honestly don’t mind it that, but yeah its tough if ur way of showing love is physical.

12. She doesn’t exist

13. She would purposely try to test my patience because she was curious about what I’d be like if I lost my temper

14. She took drugs

15. She cheated and had a kid with another guy and tried to say it was mine ✌🏼

16. Anger issues, zero patience, and cannot understand that a relationship needs to be a good fit for both people.

    I have dated two women who fit this bill. They had not problem expressing their needs from a relationship but did not want to listen to my needs. Wanted a relationship that they were comfortable with but never asked what I was comfortable with. Both were shocked when I ended things and continued to try to get back together with me for years afterwards.

17. was severely codependent

18. She’s a hypocrite and doesn’t even realize it

19. She won’t let things go and forgive. Always has to be right. Obsessed with her appearance. Can’t accept ANY criticism.

20. She says I’m too short

21. When I complimented her (her hair, for instance), she wanted her compliments to be “better”, different and more frequent. I dumped her after the 3rd time this happened in a month.

22. lol this reminds me of a post that said “he’s a great guy but…” that blew up heavily on reddit yesterday

23. She treats people including the waitress at the restaurant with rudeness and contempt. Why should I be next?

24. No empathy for others. Cold, ice queen.

25. Sexual incompatibility.. this’s often ignored but it’s the backbone of a relationship (in my opinion)

26. She has 3 cats, and I’m allergic AF