Hello everyone. Please allow me to share some information about my group of friends so that you can understand my situation better.
A few years ago, I started dating my ex. I was pretty much a loner before meeting him. He introduced me to his group of friends and they became my friends too. My ex broke up with me ten months ago. Our friends though did not distance themselves from me. We continued hanging out.
A few weeks ago, I went out with my friends and the brother of ex said that he is going to perform live in a few weeks (tomorrow) and I told him that we should come and watch him perform. He was positive to the idea.
However, nobody has mentioned anything yet about hanging out tomorrow. He didn’t ask us to attend either (he usually does). And I was wondering, perhaps they don’t want to hang out with me anymore? I have this fear that they are going to push me aside once my ex introduces his next girlfriend to the group. I shared my worries with two of my friends a few months ago and they said that we don’t know how things are going to turn out. The idea of losing friends again and of seeing my ex, whom I still love and miss very much with someone else causes me so much anxiety. I don’t know how to deal with it. I haven’t been out of the house in weeks too due to severe depression.
Should I ask them if they want to hang out tomorrow or should I shut up since no one showed interest?