I (19M) broke up with my (20F) girlfriend 4mths ago from a 2,5yr relationship and have been having a lot of thoughts about her and even getting back with her even tho it was probably right of me to do so and my family/friends agree.
When I told my friends about my girlfriend in the beginning they wanted to meet her and when they did, obviously they didn’t say anything at the time but now I know they were thinking why I chose her because I deserve some better, more mature.
Post breakup, all I know is that she doesn’t speak to many people irl that much anymore and has a ton of online friends playing with them daily and that she failed all of her classes for her current trimester at Uni.
I’m just wondering if there’s a way to find out if I actually miss her in particular or just being in a relationship, having that close connection with someone?
TL;DR
broke up with my girlfriend 4mths ago and was wondering if there is a way to determine if I actually miss her or miss being in a relationship!
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I’ve checked your other posts, but you weren’t really clear about why you broke up or why your friends and family thought you deserved better.
From what you described she tried to please you in ways that are quite unique. You said you loved how open minded she was..
So… Why did you break up? Aside from others not liking her. Because their opinions don’t matter.