What was your she’s the one moment but then realized she wasn’t, how’d you realize she wasn’t?

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1. I thought that at first but then I could tell she was over me and annoyed by me

2. I thought she was the one until further into the relationship we had the baby talk.

3. I thought she was the one when we had intense love, said such intimate things, made plans for our lives together, and shared hobbies we were passionate about.

   I realized she wasn’t the one when anything/everything was on her terms, I didn’t have a voice or was ignored, she repeatedly fell through on promises, and stopped communicating honestly.

4. When she responded to all those Indian men on instgram sending pictures of her feet for money, even worse is she got scammed so it was all for nothing. How could you do me like this Martha?

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6. She was so amazing…..but then she walked into the men’s locker room…. And then she took her clothes off…. And, there it was…. The moment I realized she wasn’t!

7. When she lobbed her stock pot over the fence and into my windshield.

8. I realized she smokes much more than she led on. Also wasn’t there that much, always working, it was hard for us to arrange schedules even to Netflix and chill. She was in a relationship for several years and one could see the toll it had taken to begin trusting again and moving on. Maybe in another life we would have made it and had a life together. I once met her years before all this at an internship where she was working, even back then I had my eye on her but I don’t wanna be the kind of person to pursue person of interests when they are already in a relationship. If it happens it happens.

9. She lied and lied and lied. Used fake cancer on her, her ex-boyfriends and even her nieces to try and gain favour and have an excuse to behave how she wanted. I’m so glad to be out of that cesspit. The only ex I hate.

10. She was the one until she told me about her body count, well not actual number but sharing experiences she had with other partners in a way that she was obviously stating she slept with many others and done things such as rimjobs and other stuff that some would definitely find disgusting

11. I never knew it was possible to love someone the way I love her. We’d stay up all night talking, planning the future, marriage, kids, everything.

    Distance got in the way… I guess I never really realized that she wasn’t the one. Just that sometimes, the one you’re meant to be with, isn’t meant to be with you.