Relatively hot couple looking for something new

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1. You don’t. People have boundaries and it is on their partner to respect those boundaries.

2. >How do I convince her to explore more things?

   You don’t, my man. You aren’t explicitly describing cuckolding, but [the advice in this post](https://www.reddit.com/r/CuckoldPsychology/comments/iwycok/so_you_wanna_be_a_cuckold/) lays out some hard facts you should really consider anyway before you proceed with trying to “convince” her to try something she doesn’t like.

   That’s probably all that can be said while still being respectful to you per this sub’s rules. If you proceed down this path then you won’t be the first or last guy to break up a perfectly good relationship because you have some misogynistic idea on your head that you just need to “convince her well enough” for her to fuck somebody else. She’s not into it dude. Give it up or break up. Those are your ethical options.

   Sex becoming boring after eight years is not your girlfriend’s problem where she now has to go fucking around with some random guys just because *you* would like it as part of your kink. God.

3. If she is against anyone but you look into role-playing etc….

   Look into toys that can somewhat do what you want.

   But first and foremost treat her with respect. If she says no then it means no.

4. “Convince” is not the right word here. If you’ve discussed this and she has said no, then that’s it. You don’t/can’t convince someone to be open to something that they’re not. If this is a dealbreaker for you then that’s ok, you’re just sexually incompatible and a serious talk about the future of the relationship probably needs to happen