tdlr: Bf confessed he is fantasizing about my friends and our colleagues while in a relationship.
My boyfriend confessed this to me because I don’t know if he wanted to hurt me or he wanted to come clean. I think it is the latter.
It really shattered my self-esteem. I just find this disrespectful. I know it is normal for men to lust about other women but pornsites exist for a reason. Our personal friends do not even post revealing
pictures.
Although we were in an ldr and still not ready to have sex yet.
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I think it was the former. To me it makes no sense to say something like this unless he’s trying to coerce you into sex sooner
You mean ex-boyfriend.
theres no such a thing as normal for men/women. people are different, some are more horny than others, so they daydream a lot.
what isnt normal is to tell such a thing for a partner, its off putting, disrespectful and kinda egoistical, unfortunately you cant unheard this and i dont think you will ever see him in a positive light again
Find a guy who’s submissive and worships you and the ground you walk on, ik it’s hard but they are out there amongst us guys, for now just keep your head up and everything will work out, I’m that way personally and for some of my buddies who don’t worship the way I do when I talk to a girl blows my mind. It’s an unforgiving world now a days🤷🏻♂️