My friend thought said this about me “how should i deal with my friend being stressed and suspicious
I have this friend that u can totally walk all over her, we met 2 years ago and built our friendship now she works with me
Currently im helping her with a project and she is super stressed and suspicious, everything must run under supervision and the way she wants, which is fine by me since its her project.
Im doing the best i can, yet i get blamed when things fuck up, even when its not involving me directly, i also got accused of being a snitch and that im after the fund she has got, i told her from the start i dont want anything.
I wanted to fix her up so we can continue, she didn’t budge, i did not give up on her yet. But should I ???
How do i deal with the stress she is going through ??
I feel like im running low on skills”
And I told him many times since one month about his role and if wanna keep going on the project and he was one time busy, many times said he forgot, many times told me tomorrow it will be done and it wouldn’t!
And I have a deadline for that and I told him every single detail of the project to keep him know everything cause I am always giving him full confidence
But I was suspicious and wanna supervise everything cause I felt that he was not serious about my project and if there is any punishment, it would be for me not him because I’m in the front of officer of the project not him!
He saw me with all the negativity even with all the confidence I gave it to him, he wanna help but with the way he likes not the needs I requested!
He is dealing sometimes selfish and i am giving to him all he needs from the bottom of my hearts! H knows that I’m his rights hands 24/7 but he didn’t do the same, I really dont want anything from him but he wanted to help and I’m so welcome to his help and I love when he involved with me i some topic
He broke my hearts with his thinking and he is not talking to me since 3 days cause he believed that I shouted on him and I didnot, I was tried to avoid talking to him about the work to avoid misunderstanding like what happen before
And he is still asking me about the work and forgot his tasks that he told me rely on me
What do you think?
I feel sad for our relationship