i want friends

i (22M) don’t have any friends, i was kind of popular in high school but i either grew apart from, abandoned, or hurt all of the friends that i had.
i dated this girl for a couple of years that didn’t let me hang out with anyone because she had issues and i didn’t really care because i was so depressed that i didn’t want to do anything anyways, this led to me no longer having any friends and now that shes gone i don’t have anyone, even family is hundreds of miles away.
ive tried tinder and stuff but im kinda ugly so nobody talks to me. what do i do?
i talk to people for a couple of days sometimes but either i don’t like them or they don’t like me