What sexual New Year’s resolutions do you have planned?

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1. Getting out of my head more, less intrusive thoughts, higher self-esteem, more confidence. (Due to an extreme affair).

2. Intentionally taking care of my(F30) libido and sexual health instead of leaving that to chance- that means supplements, kegels, regularly exercise, drinking more water. Taking care of breast health, again with supplements and daily massage. My husband agreed to a nightly breast massage- even if it doesn’t lead to sex. Just making sure they are stimulated and getting good flow and drainage every day with an oil that’s good for skin. Plus it’s nice so having them touched by him every night.

   I’d also like to get laser hair removal down there for myself so I m not thinking about it what he’s going down on me.

   Like I said before a DAILY kegels so I have that nice grip and stronger, better Os for me.

   I’m dedicated to learning to give better head, being more comfortable when I’m doing it, and doing it more often. We literally put it on our calendar 😏

   I think another big goal for me is just being more confident again. Being comfortable talking to my husband about sex, asking for what I want, saying what I like, sending dirty texts. I’ve been “good” for too long out of awkwardness and feelings of guilt and I’m trying to move past all that. I’d love for us both to be less inhibited and feel safe saying exactly what we are thinking, which is partly sexual but also an intimacy/relationship goal.

   Edit- I almost forgot. I want to get better at talking dirty in bed. I think dirty things he’d probably love to hear but I’m terrible at being vocal about it. So I’m making a conscious effort to say dirty things in bed or while we are playing.

3. To have someone cum in me while i cum in someone else