Is it true when a man says he’s changed?

28 comments

1. Lets generalize all men. Nice one

2. no, we never change, we are the same from the day we were born until the day we die

3. depends on the man

   and actions prove more than any amount of words can ever account for

4. Like, out of work clothes into something more comfortable?

5. Changes are shown through actions, not through words.

6. It’s possible. Does it show in his actions?

7. Sometimes people say they’ve changed and they really believe they have but in fact they haven’t because they are basket cases

8. Like Jordan Peterson changed? Well yes

9. First, everyone changes all the time. Next, don’t ever listen to anyone’s thoughts about themselves as so few people are aware enough to get even remotely close to what the truth is. Unless you are looking for fodder and entertainment don’t ever listen to anyone’s explanation about themselves as they will inevitably be off the mark. If you do engage in a conversation on it, take everything with a grain of sand and skepticism.

   People aren’t that aware. None of us.

10. Yes.

11. I used to change my pants every day, but as I’ve gotten older it’s just a little too easy to rewear them… Ask if I’ve changed them though, and I’ll always say yes.

12. Changed his underpants

13. Is it true when a woman says it?

14. Yes, no, maybe so.

15. As true as it is when woman says it. Words are empty. It takes will and time for people to change, everything else is just blabla.

16. Depends on the man. I would say that the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior.

    It also depends on what it is that needs to be changed. For the most part it’s incredibly difficult to change and if someone is *telling you that they changed*, instead of you seeing it for yourself, then they haven’t changed.

17. You should ask this on /AskWomen page as well, see what you get.

18. Some people change, most won’t, regardless of gender.

19. People can change, it’s hard, takes work, reflection, and time.

    But people also lie about having changed. Some times they might actually believe it. If something was fundamentally wrong with them change is very unlikely

20. How the fuck should I know

21. no. unless you see it for yourself… we dont

22. The way the question is put, I would be suspicious

23. Change takes time. And it’s usually an oddly silent process. But recovering alcoholics need to announce their progress it’s important.

24. No. But it doesn’t mean he won’t act different.

25. Most adults never change. However, it can happen sometimes.

26. Yes, but only regards to being a werewolf. Do *not* believe him if he says he’s changed into a vampire.

27. Depends on the context. If he says he’s changed to try to get you back, then no. If says he’s changed and doesn’t want you back, then maybe.

28. All depends on what one is talking about.

    Men often change small actions. Men rarely change their character unless they go through large event (religion, hitting rock bottom, divorce, etc.).