I had a childhood friend and we fell out, we haven’t spoken in over 2 years, I blocked and unblocked her on everything so we don’t follow eachother online. she’s totally out of sight out of mind. mom knows I don’t like her and we aren’t friends. I don’t wanna hear about her. Not in a mean way I just.. don’t care about her life
When I was torn about cutting her off I told my mom how horrible I felt and how she makes me feel bad and I said I didnt want it to be weird because my mom is friends with her mom, and she said noo it won’t be! don’t feel like you have to be friends just because we’re friends! I was relieved.
however she gives random updates about her life like “oh rachel moved to london didn’t she” “oh rachel got a new cat” “emily (rachel’s mom) is babysitting rachel’s cat” “rachel got a new job”
I’m always just like…. ok.? I don’t care lol. I thought she would stop after a while but we’ve not been friends for 2 years now and she just told me what rachel’s family did for christmas 😭 I show disinterest every time or tell her every time that I don’t speak to her anymore or I’m not that invested. or I ask why I’d care and she says “oh I don’t know”. Stop then?! I find this behaviour rly weird. I’m so happy without this friend who she knows mistreated me yet she still has this compulsion to mention her name. Does she want me to be friends with her again or something ?