what makes it hard to ask a girl you know and like out?

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1. Fear of rejection

2. It’s always fear of rejection.

   A subsidiary reason is fear of humiliation. It can feel humiliating to have asked and been shut down. And if you live in a social circle, word will get around fast.

   At the end of the day, what people think really doesn’t matter. But I would be remiss to say that it doesn’t still affect you.

3. Fear of rejection, fear of destroying relations, like if she say no you didn’t get anything and can’t talk with her anymore

4. It’s isn’t fear of rejection as much as possibly losing a friend/customer/client or whatever.

5. It’s fear.

6. Empathy. They always talk about how they’re afraid of random men.

   I just don’t want them to feel scared all the time. That sounds terrible.

7. Thinking too much and not doing

8. Because they flutter their eyes at me, touch my arm, wink, massage my thighs with theirs as they lightly kiss me, etc. and then when I make a move “BRUH WUT it’s not like that woah you’re creepy” and leave

9. My dumb fucking face.