Hii so I (22F) have been hanging w this guy (21M) since September. He’s been very sweet and his feelings for me WERE apparent – until now.
Last Saturday i texted him asking to hang and he responded Sunday telling me he blacked out and didn’t even make it out the house. He then said he wanted to see me before he went home for break. (We’re college kids from different states). I didn’t respond until Monday telling him that I’ve been studying for a big exam I had that Wednesday. It’s important to note he was leaving for home Wednesday morning. He told me he was doing a class project all day Monday, and i told him to come over after he’s done if he finishes early. (I told him I couldn’t hang Tuesday because I needed to study for my exam.) He texted me later Monday saying he’s still working on the project and that it’s due at midnight. He emphasized that it wasn’t that he didn’t want to see me, but it’s that he was still working on his assignment due by midnight and he’s already brain dead/tired. All I responded was “okay I understand” and that was the end of the convo.
We haven’t spoken since. That was last Monday night. He still views my stories and what not but I haven’t talked to him. I also don’t get how he could be so into me then not try harder to see me. I want to know what YOU guys thing he’s thinking.
TLDR: He liked me but then didn’t try hard to see me before we went our separate ways for winter break. We haven’t spoken since – what is he thinking ?
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Some guys won’t try super hard feeling as though the girl isn’t doing enough I recently liked this girl and pretty much stopped texting her because I felt like the interest wasn’t being shown even tho it was prob her playing a game. But it does seem like you were showing interest. I’d just hit him up and ask!