I want to mingle with friends, but

I can’t look into girl’s eyes not sure why?

I don’t have opinion on things?

I don’t do stuff that adults don’t do like having a reptile tattoo on me w/o a reason.. just to make it stand out.

I don’t work hard and it sucks to listen to others good stories with completely positive mindset

I say stupid stuff basically lacks emotional intelligence and only realize later when it’s too late to fix

I judge people if they make wrong choices but only inside(never hurt others mostly runs inside my mind)

I’m not responsible

I don’t take my work seriously.

Not sure where to start?

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  2. Aside from the therapist suggestion, I’d suggest you to start with some basic routine for learning stuff (regularly).

    I just speak from my experience – in the start of this year I started a simple [book reading habit](https://maxreva.com/how-i-formed-my-book-reading-habit-and-read-15-books-in-9-months/?utm_term=49673625112062). Literally it was just “read book -> put it to the list -> pick next one”, etc.

    Why I suggest this – because it will help you structure your ideas a bit and gives you a view on some problems you have from other’s perspective. In other words, you’ll see that some problems you’ve mentioned are… common.

    To be honest, I’m sure that most of people here can say similar things about themselves. The key thing is that you just work on one problem, then another, and another – by prioritizing and doing a little progress here and there.

    But learning regularly is what helps you progress & not to lose focus on what you try/do

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