I tried OLD for many many months and I got zero matches. I haven’t been on a date since my exgf dumped me 18 months ago (30M and 10 years relationship)
In the last few months I started approaching girls IRL, it turned out that most of them have a bf so I prefer to stay away.
Last week I started talking with a cute girl in a cafeteria, we had a long funny and sometimes deep conversation for over 1h, she opened about her family, work, future dreams and projects, I ended up asking her phone number and she gave it to me right away.
We exchanged a few texts later but her profile pic is kissing her bf so even I had a great conversation with her I just let the conversation fade and I am not writing her again.
This is the 4th time I am doing this since I started approaching girls in summer.
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>I feel bad ghosting girls
So don’t ghost them.
>her profile pic is kissing her bf
Do you know how many girls keep pics of their ex on their social media so they don’t get their inbox rammed by thirsty guys sliding in ALL THE TIME. How about you ask her about the photo and her single status before making assumptions and just ghosting.
But hey, if she really does have a BF and only gave you her number because she wanted a Text Buddy Entertainer, feel free to ghost. That one deserves it.