How do I go about striking a conversation with a woman? I am shy and get nervous around girls and so this is tough for me. I panic and blank out on conversation topics. Through text, everything is fine, but in person, it’s hard. What would be some good ways to talk to women and what places should I try it. I don’t go to bars much, but I do go to the gym, work, etc. Thanks in advance.
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Hit on girls walking their dogs, this is fucking easy mode. Or go browsing TJ Maxx/Target for home decor stuff. Find girl, ask for her input on thing to decorate your house, then eventually into “my name is X by the way, would you want to grab a drink sometime?”
Using an observational opening line can help you feel as though you know what to say, which will alleviate the anxiety and pressure you feel beforehand. Women also like to speak about themselves so allow them to chat, if you ask something about them, however, make sure you’ve built a bit of rapport otherwise she won’t necessary feel comfortable.