So I recently had a severe falling out with a girl and it was over a moral/ethical choice that she made. Specifically, she has done couples and she is involved with married man.
This got me thinking. Church. So I myself am formerly religious. I do have real problems with the theology and how coercive and abusive the concept of hell is.
However, I do like everything else about church. And religion does encourage virtue, or at least discourage some of the more ridiculous unethical behavior that many women do just naturally and because they can, because the unrestrained female id is just ridiculous.
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Well… Where to start? Church is an excellent place for socializing and meeting people. You may very well be more likely to meet a woman who aligns with your moral preferences at church. However, if you go to church to meet a woman then you need to be aware that she will assume you are a person of faith and if you are not, that’s going to be problematic.
Basically you’ll be the bad guy at that point unless you come clean really early on that you don’t believe in God and are just there to find a wife and most women of faith will not be impressed to hear that.
If you don’t come clean about your real stance on the topic and just allow her to believe you are God fearing, when you’re not then yeah, you’re not probably as moral as you’d like to believe.
So… I’m not sure if that’s the right move to make unless you’re open to rekindling your faith as well as meeting and having a serious relationship with a person of faith.