I (20f) have never been on my first date, but for a while I’ve wanted romantic companionship. I’m confused on what I want since the thought of dating stresses me out. I feel more comfortable having a more casual romantic companionship that could lead to dating but people who look/want casual relationships are usually uncaring and harsh.
These possible situations stress me out and I don’t know how to move forward.
What should I do?
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Post an ad.
Friend of mine did this.. someone responded. Now they have a 1yesr old.
Edit: they were both busy with work. Guy posted, girl replied. Echanged information. Got married less than 2 years.
what do to? on the dating app, put that you’re looking for friendship or companionship, however the app words it.
then when you’re talking to people on the app, and they ask, “what are you looking for?” then say you’re looking for companionship. because of that, you can also remind the person that you’ll be paying your own part of the food or activities that the 2 of you participate in.
if they still want to meet up and go out, then do that. or if they insist on paying, then either insist on you paying your part or go ahead and let them. at that point, you’ve told them what you’re all about, and they’ve made conscious decisions to do what they’re doing.