I’m 25m and she is 22f. In sex, I love two things more than anything else. The first is being denied of orgasms. I don’t know if it is the control aspect of it or what but I love it when I get denied.
We have tried bondages and other stuff but honestly they didn’t do anything to me. But this denial. Goddamn it’s so sexy.
When I’m so horny that I want to eat her out for ages and cum right there but she denies it, it’s so sexy.
The other thing is ruined orgasms. It’s when she stops stimulation when I reach orgasm. It becomes more erotic to me. It’s like hey, I can have a powerful orgasm but instead you have that power over me to make me cum but less powerful although I remain horny. I love that feeling.
So.. how do I tell her without freaking her out?
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just communicate, edging is a good thing that empowers genital muscles also. Observe if she enjoys light caressing other than deep penetration and orgasms.
I doubt she’d actually be freaked out. You’ve already done bondage, it would probably come across as fairly tame.