Met a guy, hit it off really well, talked a ton, shared our values and what we were looking for. Seems insane but he wanted me to be his gf after two meetings which I agreed to. We met right before Christmas so haven’t been able to meet up since as he already had plans with his family. I haven’t slept with him yet but I know he’s been wanting to which is a natural thing. I did tell him after the break we can do something on a weekend implied sleeping for the first time. He wasn’t patient and something he said annoyed me, so I called him out on it and said had he been chilled and patient we would most definitely have done it soon but the way he’s going isn’t what I deserve in dating when I only met him just not long ago. He apologised and said he really liked me etc.
After a few days I feel like he is pulling a disappearing act on me. I know it’s been two meetings but we did talk a ton, shared our values, which made me feel like we had a real connection. Usually I wouldn’t bother after such a short time but He did bring up bf and gf so do you think I should confront him for pulling away and ghosting?
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Probably looking for someone else if he can’t get what he wants with you now. Don’t sleep with him yet. He’s being pushy and that’s a huge red flag this early.
Sounds like he though becoming bf/gf would get him laid faster and that’s the reason he did it..