I hate feeling this way. We go to a lot of functions/events for his work and I see how the other girls look at him, laughing at his jokes and it makes me so annoyed. They’re always flirty towards him, almost like I’m not even there. He knows how I feel and always keeps me with him at these events and always gives me attention and constantly reassures me but he gets annoyed eventually and says it’s really tiring and I don’t trust him.
He says making them laugh and making everyone like him is literally his job. Yet why is it always women around him and not old men. Annoying. They always cradle onto his arm, I can’t explain how it feels. He says theyre just women and the only person special in his life is me yet I sometimes feel sidetracked. He’s really busy sometimes and I’ll be waiting the whole day for him to come home. When he finally gets home he’s really tired and we’ll have seggs and he’ll fall asleep immediately after.
Some days we barely ever talk because of his schedule. These days are awful bc he doesn’t reassure me and my mind wanders. I always see the girls that oogle about him and compare myself. They’re literally beautiful like they have a whole fan base of people that love them .. these people crush on my husband lol how do I stand a chance. I do trust him but I worry because of the other girls. Putas.
There’s so many guys out there why do they have to focus on him, there’s a whole wide world out there and they pick to crush on my idiot. Some of the girls ask me blatantly sexual questions about him which results in me ignoring them. Lot of the people are snobby rich wealthy people, out of touch. I had an argument one time with this girl and she replied with I don’t know what he sees in you and it still bothers me, made me cry lol
Tldr: husband reassures me yet I feel insecure about the attention he gets from girls, help?
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I’m gonna be straight with you, it sounds like you’re feeling pretty insecure about your relationship. Your husband’s job sounds like it involves a lot of socializing and networking, which can be tough if you feel like other women are constantly flirting with him. But it’s important to remember that he’s with you, not them. If he’s making an effort to be there for you and reassure you, try to trust him and talk to him about how you’re feeling. It’s normal to have ups and downs in any relationship, and it’s important to work through them together. If you’re feeling really overwhelmed, try talking to a friend or family member about it. But try to focus on the positive stuff in your relationship and the things that make you happy together.
This doesn’t really sound like an issue he can solve for you. He’s already doing the most, by bringing you and constantly reassuring you. You seem to be extremely insecure of yourself/the relationship or you don’t trust him. Nevertheless, if you can’t find the trust and security within yourself, you might want to bring this up with a professional. Because it could easily destroy your relationship.
What does he do or say to make you feel loved/beautiful/special?
I had a long term relationship with a hot flirty man, but it never bothered me because bot of us were very expressive to each other about our attraction, love, and appreciation for the other.