Ok, so I don’t have a lot of experience but I want to know some things that will make my husband a submissive as he likes that kind of thing. I’m more of a submissive type of person but I don’t to try to please him every so often. When I’m drunk or drinking I’m a bit better about it. I have my moments but I just need some ideas. Websites just send me the same crap about the”rules” when I need idea of what to do. I’m sooooo freaking vanilla and easy to please that it’s hard to even think of things outside the box
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I understand where your coming from, Im Borderline a pillow princess and it makes me feel like shit sometimes. But I know Half of Being a Dom is confidence. Dressing the part can Help the attitude. Honest to God it works for me, watch a horror movie with a strong female lead/villain or Anything to do with Harley Quinn lol. It sounds silly but Powerful women inspire powerful women, especially in the bedroom
You can make a start by blindfolding him, as it takes a bit of pressure off you since he can’t see what you’re doing.
Lightly tease him with your fingers, mouth, vibrating toys, feathers etc.
Get him close to cumming and then back off, telling him he’s not allowed to cum until you allow it.
Ride his cock, or ride his face. Take control. Tell him what you want him to do.
It’s a good start in the right direction.