I want to be respectful of peoples boundaries but everyone has their own personal boundaries. How can you learn them without treating them like a lab rat and giving him a bunch of tests to see which things they respond negatively to and which things they respond positively to?

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  1. Use your words. It’ll depend a bit on how you normally interact with them, but ideally, find some time to ask them about it. If you can’t find the time, send a message on your preferred app. If you ever are in a space where encroaching on someone’s boundaries is a risk, it’s not too weird to contact them.

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