First of all, I’ve (F25) sexted people before. I’m not good at roleplaying, but I’m okay doing other stuff. Sometimes I do it even when I don’t feel like it because I don’t know how to say no. And even though it doesn’t feel good, it’s a different sensation.
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I’ve been talking with a guy I like, he’s super sweet and respectful and I got a little crush on him. We flirt a little and I feel really comfortable with him. So I tried being bold and initiate something more sexual, but almost instantly I started feeling anxious and also started crying. He was understanding and didn’t push any further.
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I’m frustrated because I really like him that way, and I’d like to express those feelings and have a good time. An important point is that I’ve been sexually abused and raped in the past by 2 of the 3 boyfriends I’ve had.
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I don’t know what to do, and I’m afraid that this may happen again.
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Just for context, how old are you?
You’re just scared of rejection or being misunderstood. That’s the reason why most people get nervous trying to text or talk to their crush
Why do you feel a need to sext with him? Couldn’t you just meet up in person? I only sext with people I already had sex with in real life.