So my girl can’t use birth control she said a couple years ago it messes up her body (before we started dating) so I’ve tried various condoms regular fit thin feel, thin feel ultra, real feel the only one that feels a bit better is real feel but I still don’t feel that much.
I do have a pretty decent girth size but idk If the fit after regular will be to large because obviously you don’t want the condom moving up and down when you are having sex haha.
Any suggestions? Idk if lube will help me feel more?
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It’s not ideal and only 75% effective, but accurately [tracking her cycle](https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/treatments/17900-rhythm-method#:~:text=How%20effective%20is%20the%20rhythm,an%20intrauterine%20device%20(IUD)) with an app like Flo can be good. I use this method with my partner and we have unprotected sex every single time, he never finishes inside me except during my very low fertility window, and we just abstain from sex while I am ovulating. Since I have very consistent cycles this has been totally fine for us. We are also fine with the 75% effectiveness because allegedly it’s up to 98% effective if the tracking is used perfectly, and we also want kids eventually anyway so if it *did* happen, we wouldn’t be mad about it
Maybe an IUD for her?
Buttplug for both! It will make her slightly tighter, and potentially have more or different sensations. It will radically augment your sensations.
In my personal opinion, if condoms cause – 1 in sensations, a well calibrated plug hitting right on the prostate is +5 at the very least.
If you’ve tried a few types of male condoms and can’t find one you like, check out female/internal condoms. Instead of wrapping around the penis they’re a tube you push into the vagina.
Adding a small amount of lube inside the male condom can also help transfer some sensation to your glans, but make sure it’s not enough that it makes the condom slip off.
Also, any chance you have death grip? It’s often cited here as a thing that can cause men to not feel anything during sex. Your dick is so used to a clenched fist that it can’t feel anything in a mouth or vagina.
Have you tried non-latex condoms? My partners and I had very good experiences with Skyn condoms.