Hey, first off let me say, we are both 18 and freshman in college. Both of us stayed in our hometown but went to separate colleges. We’re neighbors and best friends. We’ve known each other for 15 years now. She is one of the nicest and sweetest girls I’ve ever met. But recently we’ve kinda faded apart and that’s mainly due to the stress of college. We saw each other at Christmas when both of our families came or our house. I don’t know what happened in that semester but she has gotten much prettier and sexier. We’ve agreed that we need to hang out more and we agreed to try to meet up at least once a month to get something to eat and catch up. I’d love to form a relationship with her but I don’t know how to progress it and not make her feel uncomfortable. Any advice?
TLDR: I want to move our relationship further without making it weird or uncomfortable
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Well, if she doesn’t like you romantically, you are going to make it weird. Do you have any reason to think she’s feeling more than a friend?
Start asking her out on dates. Don’t expect kisses or anything physical but you need to make an effort before someone else does.