Hi guys! New here but i need advice. Im 16f and I recently got invited to my first real party, its a new years party. The thing is i have horrible social anxiety and I’m not sure If i want to go and these are the two main issues holding me back from going;
What happens If i end up too anxious or the party isn’t my vibe and I want to leave early? How would I tell my friend (16M) that invited me that i want to leave? I want to avoid making another stupid lie/excuse because i want to be honest with him but i want to be nice.
Also, my friend… he likes me. I dont like him back and I really value our friendship I really dont want to lose him as a friend because he’s the only friend i have that I’m truly myself around. How do I reject him? (doesn’t have to be at the party but I really need to reject him soon.) Im worried he will try to kiss me at midnight and I dont know how to reject him if he does. Im not used to boy being interested in me and Im currently trying to figure out if im asexual/aromantic.
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