Before meeting my now bf, I have been single for roughly 3 years. I have went on a LOT of dates and wasted a tremendous amout of time on men who were only looking for hook ups (I am an average looking girl and I was looking for avarege looking guys with similar education to mine). Even though i met them on tinder, I made it very clear from the beginning that i was looking for something committed. Around 50% played along and lied in order to try to sleep with me, later it got obvious that a relationship is not something they want anytime soon. The rest either turned out to be stalkers/emotionally unstable/very low on confidence or there was no chemistry or we simply weren’t a match.
The only thing I wanted was a stable committed relationship with a kind,decent man. Anyway, I have found a man like that, I never imagined it would be such a complicated thing to do. I guess when you date above 100 men sooner or later (if you have the right priorities in mind) you will find someone who is right.
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I can handle three years if that’s how long it takes. I can’t handle three decades, which is about where I’m approaching.
Have to kiss a lot of frogs before you meet your prince. Congrats!
Sorry to hear rhar happened, but I’m glad you found a good one.
I would hope people don’t lie when it comes to things like this, but it doesn’t surprise me people acr this way. They should just be honest about it.
However, if they wanted a serious relationship, you probably wouldn’t have found the one you’re with now.
It’s been 18 months after my exgf dumped me and I haven’t been on a single date.
If I have to go in 100 dates it will take 500 years so it’s impossible for me to find a girl.
Tried dating apps and approaching IRL but no girl is interested or they have a bf, I got zero matches in dating apps for many months I tried.
Yep, never settle for less.
Were you having sex with men while you searched for your one?
Congrats. Wow, it is tough on both genders right now. I find 2/3rds of women are turned off by men who say they want something serious. Ok, move on…
I’ve chosen to only date women I meet in real life as the OLD seems so toxic that women are… jaded against men. Kudos to you for keeping a bright outlook!
100+??? How many dates a week?